February News from Eiros Group

"I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.”

Quote by Edward Everett Hale

Welcome to February! February 2024 is extra special because it offers up Leap Day, and Valentine's Day! This month we have been gifted an extra day on the calendar (Feb. 29th) and it only happens once every four years! It encourages us to take a Leap of Faith and do something!


As our opening quote reminds us, we all have the power within ourselves to do something. Often people will feel the pressure of Valentine's Day, and it can sometimes create a sense of feeling overwhelmed or alone. However, that it simply not the case when we reread the above quote. We all can take a leap of faith in ourselves, and do something to give love and to feel loved. That something can be as simple as a compliment to a stranger, giving a simple gift, card or note, listening to a friend, or even sharing a hug. When we give love, we also receive love.


We hope you will leap forward this month to pursue Love. Those simple gestures are the something to give, and to receive. Let's try to make the most of every day, and think about ways of discovering more of the things we can do and Leap Forward!


What does "Support Brokerage" mean? Our founder and CEO, E. Jennifer Brown explains...

At Eiros, we are often asked what is Support Brokerage – like what exactly do you do?  


We start with a person’s hopes and dreams. What are they really good at? Where do they see themselves in 1 year, 5 years? What are their strengths and where do they benefit from support? Then based on this, we work with the person and their supporters to help move them towards a life based on this planning, regardless of their support needs.


What does this look like in practice?


For example, Support Brokers don’t find staff, we help people find staff. We help people identify the type of person that they want, and then we help find that person.


We work with the person to develop a policy and procedure manual for their individual support needs. After that, we can help the person manage the staff if needed.


Support brokers do community mapping. Where are all the good pizza places? Where are the places in the community where this person can show up, share their gifts, and be known? 


Based on the person’s interests - who can we reach out to as a goods and service provider? Yoga studios, pottery places, sky diving, etc., etc., etc.


Brokers can help a person get a housing voucher or subsidy, and then help the person find an apartment. If they choose to have a live-in caregiver, we again, help them through that process along with helping to secure funding for furniture or security deposits. Again, all person-centered and self-directed.


We help with the dreaded paperwork - SNAP, SSI, housing, Medicaid renewal, LIHEAP. Really anything to help keep a person self directing. We can help with anything that can’t be accessed through another service like Support Coordination or Medicaid.


Each step along the way is done with the person, not for the person. It is done in a way that respects the person’s ability to participate, and their supporters. We presume competence and that the person and their supporters know best.


We have helped people come back from out-of-state settings, homeless shelters, hospitals, nursing homes, group homes, family homes and even the YMCA. It is not an emergency service, as it takes time to plan. The planning is done so that it is self-directed and through the planning we find out what the person wants.  Then, we move ahead from there.

Do you have a question about how support brokerage can help you self-direct? Send your questions to jennb@eiros-group.com and Jenn will answer them!


Hey Support Coordinators! Are the people you support struggling with finding services and supports that they want, and need? Eiros is that solution!

Eiros Group is New Jersey's leading Supports Brokerage, focused on Person Centered Planning and helping people to build their best lives. We always keeping the person at the center of the conversation.


Take a look at the scenarios below. If any of these sound familiar, then it's time to call a Support Broker.

"I need to enroll a person with a Fiscal Intermediary, but I do not have the availability to help them through this time consuming process."


"A person I support wants to try self-direction as they have not had the greatest luck with DSP's (Direct Support Professionals) from agencies. They would like to find SDEs (Self Directed Employees) to hire but do not know where or how to start."


"I am supporting a person that is looking for an alternative to licensed housing settings and a day program."


"I am working with a person that is very independent, but they just need a little help with budgeting for their monthly bills."


"I struggle to find the time to help people with the tedious paperwork associated with SNAP, Medicaid, and other application information."

Through Supports Brokerage we are able to assist with everything listed above and more. We are here to help create detailed road-maps for care, housing, employment, socializing and fun activities. We help them to network within communities, and troubleshoot complex situations.


We are here to help! Contact Kristen Mathews, our Director of Supports Brokerage, at kristenm@eiros-group.com for more information.


"When we give love, we also receive love." Nothing can be truer for Team Eiros as we share our love for Sherry, Lead Support Broker! When we sent out a request for adjectives to describe Sherry, we loved every single response and we know you will too! <3 Sherry, from us to you, thank you for your warm smile, loving heart, gentle guidance, and words of wisdom. You mean the world to us!


Congratulations On Your New Home Nelson!

We are super proud to introduce you to the witty and charming Nelson.  When we met him, he was living in a YMCA in an urban area.  He expressed that he wanted to live in a place of his own where he could have a cat.  It took us a while to find the right fit for Nelson.  There were many obstacles in his way and we worked with him to cut each one down. 

 

There is so much to say about Nelson! He is a most gentle and caring human.  Nelson is excited to be living a more self-directed lifestyle.  He has a live in caregiver who helps him explore his new neighborhood.  He is taking control and responsibility for his life. 

 

If you were to ask Nelson, he would say “I love it here, thank you so much.” Nelson is really into comic books and enjoys visiting the comic bookstore that happens to be in his new town!


It was a great feeling for Brokers - Emily and Tori to be able to drive Nelson away from the YMCA to his new deluxe apartment in the sky! This is why we do the work that we do and why we do it the way we do it. As much as it was an accomplishment for Emily and Tori - it truly was Nelson’s victory. He drove the process and we walked behind him sometimes next to him and often sat with him patiently as he figured it out. 


Opportunities for on-going training...

We are always learning!!

Last month, Brokers Victoria (Tori) and Kristina attended a Self-Direction training that was incredibly informative! The take away was that it was great to hear from people who utilize self-direction, as well as going through the entire process of screening, interviews, hiring and scheduling.


We Cannot Know Who The "Other" Is Unless We Have Some Insight Into Who We Are

By John McGee

Spreading John McGees’s wisdom… We cannot know who the “other” is unless we have some insight into who we are.


Gentle Teaching is grounded in the whole person and who the person is. A key assumption, especially when supporting those who are extremely violent toward others or harmful to themselves, is the understanding that behaviors have their origin in moral development—how human beings throughout their lives are in the process of learning how to interact with others and how each of us sees ourself and others. This moral development is inside of us and encompasses the memories that have been formed from the first moments of life to the present moment.


Moral memories are how we spiritually interact with the world. When these memories are sad and disorienting, they reside like haunting ghosts in the hidden corners of our being and, in a sense, whisper to us what clinicians will later call behaviors. Behaviors are the visible part of toxic weeds; memories are the roots. They are deep, often not known, and not intellectual, but moral memories. The use of behavioral techniques is like pulling out the surface of weeds but leaving the roots intact. Gentle Teaching goes for the creation of new moral memories that eventually lead the person to feel safe and loved and then “behaviors” begin to fade away.


Want to learn more about available Opportunities? Click here to visit the County College of Morris' Opportunity programs. If you’re an employer or community resource interested in employing County College of Morris' Opportunity Programs students, please contact Wendi Manderioli, Transition Success Coach, at wmanderioli@ccm.edu or 973-328-5073.

We are growing! We have a number of open positions throughout New Jersey. Want to learn more? Click here and apply today!


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Below are upcoming fun things to do throughout New Jersey! If you are hosting a similar type of event, and would like it included in our newsletter, please send to info@Eiros-Group.com

*Please allow 2 weeks or more advance notice. Thanks!


Interested in finding meaningful and fun activities? Meet Liz!

Hello Everyone,


My name is Elizabeth Bagish and I am an Eiros volunteer. I am very excited to be working with Eiros Group on a program that would help people participate in meaningful activities that assist them exploring their interests and their community.


I have worked in K-12 public schools for over 30 years helping teachers incorporate technology into the curriculum. In addition, I have taught technology and STEM (science, technology, engineering & math) to K-8 students.  I have collaborated with others subject area teachers on developing and locating materials for people with varying needs.  I am a certified teacher and have a Master's in Special Education. 


I am volunteering with Eiros to help people who would like some support in finding meaningful and fun activities on-line or in the community. This could be anything that the person is interested in doing together with as little or as much support as they would like or need.


If you are at all interested in exploring this more, please fill out this survey so that we can get a better grasp on what peoples’ interests and needs are. 


You can also reach me via email, elizabethb@eiros-group.com,  if you have any more questions.


 I look forward to meeting and working with you!


Liz


Family Networking Sessions: Winter 2024
The Division of Developmental Disabilities (DDD) Office of Education on Self-Directed Services (OESDS) hosts networking sessions for
people and familie
s who are self-directing or interested in self-direction. Please email any questions to DDD.OESDS@dhs.nj.gov.
Advance Registration is
Required – For in-person sessions, location details are provided at registration


Tuesday, February 13, 2024 1 – 3 p.m. In-person
Burlington County Library

Register for Feb. 13 Session


Wednesday, February 21, 2024 1 – 3 p.m. In-person
Mercer County – Lawrenceville Library

Register for Feb. 21 Session


Tuesday, March 5, 2024 1 – 3 p.m. Virtual
Hunterdon and Somerset Counties

Register for March 5 Session


Tuesday, March 12, 2024 12 – 2 p.m. In-person

NJ DDD Freehold Office
Register for March 12 Session


Mark your calendars to attend these free Lunch & Learn webinars on the first Wednesday of each month from 12pm to 1pm


To register, please go to www.parlesrekem.com

• On our home page, click on any event and RSVP.

• When you RSVP, you will receive an email with the link to join the zoom meeting for the event.

• You can also add the event to your calendar.


Transition: Obtaining Key Assessments and Developing Appropriate IEP Goals

Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq. and Judith Weinstock, Esq.

March 6, 2024


Navigating the IEP Process: What to Include in an Effective IEP

Denise Dimson Rekem, Esq. and Judith Weinstock, Esq.

April 3, 2024


Key Questions When Selecting (or Creating) a Program for Individuals with Autism or I/DD and Challenging Behaviors

Lisa McCauley Parles, Esq.

May 1, 2024


Do you have a high school student with an intellectual and/or developmental disability who will need support after graduation? Come learn about the transition process from children's services to the Division of Developmental Disabilities. See dates and locations below.

Hunterdon County Transition Fair

March 2, 2024 10:00am-12:30pm

Hunterdon Central Regional High School

Fleminton, NJ


For questions or more information:

877-265-6360

transitionfair@njcaregivers.org


We will also be attending:

Northern Burlington Regional High School Transition Resource Fair

Thursday March 14, 2024 5:00pm - 7:00pm

160 Mansfield Rd. East

Columbus, NJ


East Orange School District’s Annual Transition Fair

Tuesday April 9, 2024 6:00pm - 8:00pm

Cicely Tyson Middle/High School – Level 1 Gymnasium, 35 Winans St., East Orange, NJ

Eiros Group will be attending the NJACP Conference 3/21 & 3/22 in Atlantic City.



2/9/2024! Join a Night to Shine!


Night to Shine is an unforgettable prom night experience, centered on God’s love, for people with special needs, ages 14 and older. Attend, Volunteer or Host! Night to Shine is a complimentary event for people with special needs hosted by local churches around the world. The event is open to anyone living with disabilities, ages 14 and older.


Members of our teams will be attending Night to Shine events throughout New Jersey. Visit the Night to Shine website to register and for more information. Night to Shine is Worldwide on Friday, February 9, 2024.


More information about NTS2024 is here


Upcoming events throughout NJ


NORTH JERSEY:


Grow it Green Morristown Winter Farm Market
Sundays through April 28: 9:30am-1pm

Maple Sugaring
February 10, 11, 17, 18, 24, 25

Volunteer for Cleanup at the tip of Sandy Hook
February 10: 10am-12:30pm

Jersey City Mural Art Walk
February 10

Valentine’s All Star Comedy Show
February 10: 7pm


Monmouth Battlefield 2nd Sunday
February 11: 2pm

4 mile Run in Rutherford
February 13: weekly from 5:30pm-6:30pm,

Open Mic Series Morristown
February 14 & 21: 7pm-10pm

Valentine’s Day Planetarium Shows: Romancing the Stars
February 14: 7pm and 8pm

New Jersey Boat Sale and Expo
February 15: 11am to 7pm
February 16: 11am to 7pm
February 17: 10am to 7pm
February 18: 10am to 7pm

Guided House Tour: Eyewitness to Black History
February 18: 12pm-3pm

Newport Skates
February 20: 11am-9pm

New Jersey Home and Garden Show
February 23: 3pm to 8pm
February 24: 10am to 7pm
February 25: 10am to 5pm

Hunterdon County Full Moon Walk
February 24: 5pm-6:30pm


CENTRAL NEW JERSEY:

What is Sensory Processing Disorder
February 8: 7pm-8:30pm

Jersey City Brewsology
February 10: 7pm-10pm

Valentine’s Celebration: Keyport Funhouse
February 10: 12pm-6pm

Maple Sugaring
February 10: 10am

Mardi Gras Costume Party!
February 13: 6pm-10pm

All ages Folk Dance
February 11 and March 10: 3pm-5pm

Perth Amboy Valentine’s Day Dinner Cruise
February 14: 6:30pm

Red, White and Brew Fest
February 17

Winter Beach Blast
February 17: 1pm

Coastal Country Nights
February 17: 5pm-6pm beginner class; 6pm-10pm open dances

Black History Month Celebration Concert
February 25: 3pm

Comedy Night Dinner and Show
February 29: 6:30pm

SOUTH NEW JERSEY:


Winterfest Skating at Cooper River
Now until February 25

Improv Comedy Class
Every Wednesday in February

Winter Wonderland at Renault
Entire month of February

Volunteer Workday-South Jersey Horse Rescue
February 10: 10am-2pm

Allstar Family Day
February 11: 10am-2pm

Naad Yoga and Concert with Rubaba
February 16: 6pm-9pm

Roller Skating Family Night
February 16: 6pm-8pm

Winter Birding
February 17: 9am-10am

South Jersey Health Expo
February 17: 11am-3pm

Sensory Sundays
February 18: 9:30am-10:30am

Nerd Fest
February 25: 10am-4pm

Young at Heart Senior Adult Series
February 27: 1pm

Atlantic City Boat Show
February 28 to March 3

If you are hosting a similar type of event, and would like  it included in our newsletter, please send to info@Eiros-Group.com


*Please allow 2 weeks or more advance notice. Thanks! Please note, we are relaying information found on other websites or through other organizations, and doing so as a service. Please confirm event details and information directly.



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