October 2025 News

October News from Eiros Group!

Reflections From the Gentle Teaching International Conference in Aalborg, Denmark

by Kristen Mathews, Chief Operations Officer

Last month, our team attended the Gentle Teaching International Conference in Aalborg, Denmark (September 16–18). The event brought together practitioners and leaders from around the world to share their experiences and practices.

Gentle Teaching is practiced in many countries throughout the world including the United States, Canada, India, South America, Asia and Europe. This year marked the 24th Annual Gentle Teaching International (GTI) Conference in Aalborg, Denmark. Each year, the GTI conference brings together professionals and organizations worldwide, that work together to develop, promote and strengthen the values of Gentle Teaching.

The Gentle Teaching International Conference 2025 was hosted by Sødisbakke, one of Denmark’s leading special services for adults with physical and mental disabilities. Like Eiros Group, they have attended numerous GTI Conferences over the years, and did a fantastic job coordination and hosting this year's event in Aalborg, Denmark.

The 3 day conference included numerous workshops and key note speakers showcasing the various positive impacts of Gentle Teaching.

Highlights included Kristinn Már Torfason’s presentation on introducing Gentle Teaching into services in Iceland and the cultural change it has supported over three decades. Bo Hejlskov discussed the ethics behind approaches to challenging behavior, and Ingelis Arnsbjerg connected Polyvagal Theory to Gentle Teaching, showing the role of safety and self regulation in human connection.

We also learned from Nathan Murdoch’s session on harm reduction as an approach rooted in relationship and respect, from Melanie Loroff and Heather Foster’s focus on leadership during organizational change, and from Tim Jones’ overview of Canada’s Certified Gentle Teaching Mentor network.

I was honored to present at the conference as well. My workshop used storytelling, humor, and references from the TV show Friends to explore how Gentle Teaching connects with Charting the LifeCourse (CtLC). I shared practical ways the two approaches can work together to build relationships grounded in safety, trust, and love.

The Aalborg conference was an inspiring experience, and we are looking forward to hosting the Gentle Teaching International Conference in Atlantic City, New Jersey, September 29–October 1,
2026.

Eiros Group Is Hosting Gentle Teaching International for 2026!

Ever since the beginning of Eiros Group over 5 years ago, leading and living in a Culture of Gentleness has been integral to the core philosophy of Eiros Group.

Gentle Teaching is more than just a methodology to work with people who experience disabilities, it is a philosophy, it is resource, and it is a way of life.

For the past 24 years, the GTI conference has been held at difference destinations throughout the world, including Denmark, Canada, the Netherlands, Portugal, Puerto Rico and next year, Eiros Group is honored to the organization who will host Gentle Teaching International 2026!

To learn more about the next year's conference, to sign up to receive updates, or to become a sponsor of this event, click the link at the top of this page, Gentle Teaching Int'l 2026.

Fall Fun Photo Challenge!

Photo assignment: Send us pics of something fun you're doing this weekend (or any time recently)! Our employees and customers have definitely been enjoying the great weather, family and friends this fall! Want to see more? Follow us on Instagram and Facebook!

Soup Season IS Here!

by Jean Marie Hanna, Supports Broker

As someone who loves colder weather, I am also someone who loves a good hearty, satisfying and easy recipe. On a particularly chilly afternoon, I recently made one of my favorites, Creamy Parmesan Italian Sausage Soup. It was, as always, the perfect recipe to warm my belly!

Creamy Parmesan Italian Sausage Soup

Ingredients:
1-pound Italian sausage, casing removed
1 tablespoon olive oil
1 small onion, chopped
2 cloves garlic, minced
4 cups chicken broth
1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes
1 cup heavy cream
1 cup grated Parmesan cheese
2 cups baby spinach
1 teaspoon Italian seasoning
Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:

In a large pot, heat olive oil over medium heat. Add Italian sausage and cook until browned, breaking it up with a spoon.
Remove excess fat if necessary.
Add chopped onion and minced garlic to the pot and cook until the onion is translucent. About 3 to 4 minutes
Pour in the chicken broth and diced tomatoes and bring to a simmer.
Stir in heavy cream, grated Parmesan cheese, and Italian seasoning.
Simmer for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Add baby spinach and cook until wilted, about 2 minutes.
Season with salt and pepper to taste.
Serve with crusty bread or garlic bread and salad of your choice for a comforting meal.

Note:
For a thicker soup, add a tablespoon of cornstarch mixed with a tablespoon of water.

Meet Daulton & Cooper - Furry Friends with a Purpose

by Desiree Coyle, Supports Broker

We’re excited to introduce two very special pups—Daulton and Cooper, our beloved mini Goldendoodles!

Daulton recently achieved a big milestone by passing his AKC Canine Good Citizen test—way to go, Daulton! His younger “brother,” Cooper, is currently in training and will take his test in
April when he turns one year old.

But their accomplishments go far beyond obedience and good behavior. Daulton and Cooper are preparing for a meaningful mission: they’ll be volunteering with a local hospice center, offering comfort, joy, and wagging tails to those in need. This service is especially close to my heart, as it honors the memory of my beloved Aunt Ethel, who recently passed.

Each month, we receive submissions from Eiros Group Employees, the people we support, and their families, about a variety of topics including services, insights, vacation or holiday experiences, family memories or traditions, favorite recipes and stories about life with disability. If you would like to submit an article, photos or both for consideration in an upcoming edition, please send to: maryb@eiros-group.com We are grateful for all of the contributions to our newsletter!

October Eiros Group

Anniversaries & Birthdays!

Happy Birthday to Vicki L. and Marita P.!

We also want to wish Happy Eiros Group Anniversaries to Tori and Ryan B., Heidi K., Kristen M., Kelsey M., Katelyn S.!!

Thank you to all of you for being a part of our amazing group!!

Eiros Group Is A Proud Sponsor of The 10th Annual JBJ Soul Kitchen Chili Cook-Off!

The JBJ Soul Kitchen in Tom's River is hosting it's 10th Annual Chili Cook-Off, and we are excited to be a supporting sponsor as local First Responders compete for the Best Chili of the Day! A couple of the Eiros Group staff have been volunteers at the JBJ Soul Kitchens, and we definitely believe in supporting organizations like Soul Kitchen, whose mission is to support their community! For more information about the event, or how you too can contribute to this amazing organization, visit JBJ Soul Kitchen ~ A Community Restaurant

Attention NJ School Districts! Is Your School Hosting A Resource Fair? Contact Us!

If your district is hosting a Transition or Resource Fair this Fall or later in the school year, please send us the information so that we can not only attend, but also share the news! Email us here!

Arm In Arm in Mercer County:

48 Hudson Street, Trenton NJ
Monday and Wednesday : 9:30AM to 12PM

61 Nassau Street, Princeton NJ
Monday and Wednesday : 11 AM to 4 PM
Tuesday: 1 PM to 7 PM

Mobile Food Pantry
2751 Brunswick Pike, Lawrence Township 08648 (Mercer County Library)
Mondays at 2 PM to 4 PM

142 E. Hanover Street, Trenton (located at Trenton Meeting of Friends)
Tuesdays 9:30 AM to 12 PM

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Pam Honored with "Advocacy of the Year" Award by Community Options Center for Advocacy Leaders

by Desiree Coyle, Supports Broker

We are thrilled to announce that Pam has received the "Advocacy of the Year" award from the Community Options Center for Advocacy Leaders—a recognition of her outstanding dedication, leadership, and unwavering commitment to advocacy and community empowerment.

Pam is a dynamic force in the advocacy world, actively participating in multiple councils and initiatives across New Jersey. She consistently serves as a positive role model, not only within her own community but also across a broader network of agencies, peers, and advocacy groups.

Her contributions include regularly sharing valuable information, news, and event updates to ensure that individuals and organizations are informed and empowered.

In addition to her advocacy efforts, Pam serves as a mentor at the Center for Leaders, where she lends her voice and experience through speaking engagements and webinars, inspiring emerging advocates to step into leadership roles.
Pam’s calendar remains as impactful as ever. In the coming months, she will be:

Attending the Arc of New Jersey Conference, returning in person for the first time since COVID.
Participating in the Self-Direction Conference with The Collaborative, where she proudly serves as a board member.
Contributing to the Support Coordination Competency Project Committee with The BOGGS Center.
Attending a Gubernatorial Candidate Meeting hosted by NJCDD.
Continuing her role on the NJCDD State Plan Committee.

Pam's work exemplifies what it means to lead with purpose, compassion, and dedication. We are incredibly proud of her achievements and grateful for her ongoing contributions to the advocacy community.

Gentle Teaching and the Holiday Season

by Kristen Mathews, Chief Operations Officer

The holiday season brings many traditions and celebrations Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Diwali, and more. While this time of year can be filled with joy and connection, it can also bring stress, loneliness, or pressure for some people. Gentle Teaching offers us simple ways to respond with kindness and presence.

At its core, Gentle Teaching is about helping others feel safe, valued, and connected. During the holidays, that can mean slowing down, offering reassurance, and creating space for people to be themselves.

Here are some ways we can support people who may be feeling stressed this season:

Be Present: Spend time together without distraction. A calm presence can be more meaningful than words.
Listen First: Give people room to share their feelings or experiences without rushing to fix or change them.
Simplify: Holidays can be overwhelming. Help break down tasks or create smaller, manageable activities.
Invite, Don’t Pressure: Offer opportunities to join in meals, traditions, or outings, but respect when someone needs space.
Create Comfort: Small gestures such as warmth in tone, a smile, or shared quiet moments can help build a sense of safety and belonging.

No matter which holiday is being celebrated, these Gentle Teaching practices remind us that connection is the most meaningful tradition. By offering presence and kindness, we can help make this season a time where everyone feels included and supported.

The Collaborative for Citizen Directed Supports - New Jersey

The 2025 Self-Direction Conference Launches In October!

The NJ Self-Direction Conference brings together individuals, families, professionals and advocates to explore the power of self-direction, providing resources, workshops, expert-led discussions, networking and more to help navigate the future of person-centered care.

Location - The College of New Jersey, Brower Student Center, Ewing (in-person)

Day One - Thursday, October 23rd, 2025; 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

Networking and Exhibitor Social

Day Two - Friday, October 24th; 8:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Conference and Workshops

Visit TheCollaborativeNJ.org for more information.

Are You Registered & Ready? Do It!

As the seasons begin to shift from one to the next, the chance for severe weather is always a possibility. October ushers in the beginning of the rainy season (N'or Easters), along with drops in temperature, and sometimes, even early snow storms. The New “Register Ready – New Jersey’s Special Needs Registry for Disasters” allows New Jersey residents with disabilities or access and functional needs and their families, friends, caregivers and associates an opportunity to provide information to emergency response agencies so emergency responders can better plan to serve them in a disaster or other emergency.

Remember, being prepared is the most important thing to do. Register with your county's Office of Emergency Management, regularly run down the lists of important contacts, and know what to do. The first line of defense in any disaster is being prepared.

If you have had a change in email addresses, mailing addresses, phone numbers or any other information, it is ESSENTIAL that you contact us to make sure it is all up to date. This information also needs to be up to date with Support Coordinators, and on your ISP, if applicable. If you need help, or have had a recent change, please contact your Supports Broker right away!

Come Work With Us ! We have a number of open positions throughout New Jersey! Want to learn more? Click here and apply today!

Trick? Or Treat? Why It's October!!

Want to enjoy some spooktacular Halloween themed activities and events? We have compiled a ghoulishly exciting list of hauntingly good things to check out all across the state!

NORTH:
Halloween Light Show
Demarest Farms
244 Wierimus Road Hillsdale
Now until October 31

Jack O’ Lantern Experience
Skylands Stadium
94 Championship Place
Now until early November

Spooky Wild West
Wild West City
50 Lackawanna Drive
Saturday and Sunday’s October 4-26: 10:30am-4pm

Family Spooktacular Night Celebration for Persons with Disabilities and Special Needs
Rahway Recreation Center
275 E. Milton Ave
October 17: 6-8pm

Gardens Aglow
Essex County Presby Memorial Iris Garden
474 Upper Mountain Ave
October 17: 6pm-9pm

Hometown Halloween
Downtown Washington Boro
October 25: 3pm-5pm

Halloween Family Bash
Downtown Jersey City
Newark Ave Mall and Plaza
October 31: 3pm-9pm

CENTRAL:

Addamsfest
Month long activities

18th Annual Scarecrow Stroll
Downtown Cranford
October 10-31

Witches of Spring Lake Paddle for a Cause
Lake Drive Spring Lake
October 11

Boo at the Boardwalk
Jenkinson’s Boardwalk and Aquarium Point Pleasant
October 18, 19, 25 and 26

Howl-O-Ween Family Fest
118 Route 526 Allentown
October 18: 12pm-5pm

Halloween Spooktacular Costume Parade
Main Street Freehold
October 26: 1pm

Toms River Fire Company Halloween Parade
Main Street and Highland Parkway
October 31: 7pm

SOUTH:

Annual Scarecrow Alley
Washington Street
October 5 through November 2

Halloween Parade and Dance Party
Excursion Park
2 41st Street Sea Isle City
October 17: 7-9pm

8th Annual Fleck Family Fall Fest
Ellie & Wild Bill’s Farmer Market & Garden Center
517 S. Delsea Drive
October 18: 10am-3pm

Smithville Costume Pet Parade
Smithville Village
615 E. Moss Mill Road
October 18

Medford Vincentown Rotary Club Halloween Parade
Main Street Medford
October 25: 7pm

Witches Day
Smithville Village
615 E. Moss Mill Road
October 26: 2pm

Middle Township’s Halloween Parade
Memorial Field
Route 9
Cape May Court House
October 29: 7pm

Ocean City Halloween Parade
6th and Asbury Street Ocean City
October 30: 7:15pm

Spooktacular Seniors
Wayne Bryant Community Center
October 30: 11am-2pm

Upcoming events throughout NJ

Below are upcoming activities or events throughout New Jersey! If you are hosting a similar type of event, and would like it included in our newsletter, please send to maryb@Eiros-Group.com

*Please allow 2 weeks or more advance notice. Thanks!

NORTH:
Zombie Walk in Asbury Park
October 4: Starts at 4pm

Long Branch Fall Festival and Pooch Parade
October 18: 12 to 4pm

Mountain Creek Oktoberfest
October 4 through November 2

Hungarian Artisan Market
October 11 10am to 2pm

Wayne Valley High School Fall Craft Fair
October 19: 10am to 5pm

Halloween Spooktacular
October 25: 1pm to 5pm

CENTRAL:
Snyder's Farm Fall Festival
Hours: 11am to 6pm on…
October 4 & 5:
October 11 & 12
October 18 & 19
October 25 & 26

Long Beach Island Kite Festival
October 10: 10am to 9pm
October 11: 10am to 9pm

Downtown Tom's River Night Out

Every Friday and Saturday Night in October
5 to 10pm

Fall Art Show at Tehune Orchards

Every Sunday from September 1 through December 7

Highland Park Farmers Market
Every Friday until December 12

Stargazing at the NJ Atronomical Assoc. Observatory
Every Saturday until October 25
8:30 to 10pm

ONLINE:

Transition to Adult Life Webinars presented by NJ DDD
Dates are ongoing throughout 2025

If you are hosting a similar type of event, and would like it included in our newsletter, please send to maryb@Eiros-Group.com

*Please allow 2 weeks or more advance notice. Thanks! Please note, we are relaying information found on other websites or through other organizations, and doing so as a service. Please confirm event details and information directly.